the reality of reality as I see it

I have been pondering quantum physics-that is, what I understand -or try to.
A great physicist once said that if you think you understand quantum physics, then you don't.

It seems to indicate that all possible outcomes exist until you look.(hard to believe????)

The famous double slit experiment fires a single electron at a target behind a barrier which has two slits.
The results of the experiment are that the electron went through A, or B, or A&B, or neither and reached the target..
The resulting impression on the target is that of a wave & NOT of a particle.
If the experiment is set up to look and see which slit is used, then either A or B was used AND the pattern on the target was particles and NOT waves.
you change the outcome when you look.!!! when you look it is a particle, when you don't it is a wave!

particle = matter
wave=energy

What I just told you is true and beyond debate.

All possibilities exist, until you act and make it real.

This seems to be the reality of reality, although it is quite mad.

To go further down the rabbit hole with Alice, They have found that a COMPLETE vacuum is actually boiling with subatomic particle coming into and out of existence.

And a little further down this rabbit hole, the universe is closed with no edges and no center. And yet it is expanding and the distance between galaxies is increasing. Oh no!( I ponder) perhaps it is the other way around??? What did Alice drink,??? space is getting bigger or matter is getting smaller, which is it?

All possibilities exist, until you act and make it real.

You make choices every day, but there are infinite possibilities and choices effect reality . Almost sounds like a religion, doesn't it? I'm not preaching I've just fallen down this rabbit hole and can't get out!
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